2023 Author: Steven Freeman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-24 12:22
I am a pretty shy girl and I have a little problem. Right now I'm dating a very good boy. He is quite in love with me and I with him. The thing is, before we got together, I had a very special feeling for another boy and that feeling still exists. That other person also has feelings for me and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings. What should I do? Please help.
Marisol Watsonville, CA
Jai: Marisol, there is a big difference between loving someone and loving someone. That is something you will have to learn for yourself. What do you really feel for each of these guys? If you are honest with your boyfriend, he will understand that if you end the relationship right now, you will be avoiding the drama of possible infidelity. Look at it this way: If J. Lo can find love in more than one man in a year, why can't you?
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