2024 Author: Steven Freeman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 08:15
When your boyfriend or partner is distracted, are you looking for a way to check their emails and text messages on their cell phone? If you do it on a recurring basis, this article is for you.
You had wine with your love to have an unforgettable evening, but if you expect him to fall asleep to rummage through his smartphone, something is wrong. The problem is not necessarily your partner. Certainly there are fears that could talk about how the relationship is.
Health spoke to clinical psychologist Mary Lamia, who said, "You don't want to live having to snoop around in order to feel safe or loved." What reason could you have for doing so? Lamia explains that some "people do it because their needs are not covered by their partner and they are trying to understand the lack of connection or rejection they feel." Also, they imagine that they are not the right people, so they are convinced that their partners may be attracted to others, Lamia said.
An interesting fact is that Lamia says that you are looking for the cell phone because you are not really ready to confront your partner in a conversation. For Lamia safe people do not assume treason. So if you do, you should look at your expectations and your personal story.
• Do you watch messages because they lied to you in the past? Lamia affirms that "emotional memories" play a determining role in how we respond to current situations. If he is late it is not because he is unfaithful to you, he may have a hard work week.
• Do you watch messages because your partner is manipulative? The psychologist indicates that there are people who seek to control through the insecurities of the other.
The solution that Lamia presents is to talk to your partner. Be honest; straight to the point. "For some reason, I doubt your honesty and I want to talk about it," he said. And finally, don't do it. Your ideal partner will agree that everything is fine and will make you feel safe.
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